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Join our free 7-week book study program based on Mel Robbins’ LET THEM theory.
Discover the freedom, peace, and happiness that comes when you stop focusing others, and start focusing on yourself.

Join our free 7-week book study program based on Mel Robbins’ LET THEM theory.
Discover the freedom, peace, and happiness that comes when you stop focusing others, and start focusing on yourself.
Tired of feeling frustrated by your family, coworkers, or friends?
Ready to stop letting other people’s actions, reactions, and opinions control your peace of mind or hold you back?
Unity Palo Alto + Mel Robbins LET THEM are here to help you transform your life.
Unity Palo Alto is a non-denominational organization bringing positive, practical spiritual principles that help people create the life they want, filled with purpose, peace, and joy.
The 7-week LET THEM Program
Education and practical tools, wrapped in a supportive community, to empower you to protect your time and energy, and find genuine peace.

LISTEN TO WEEKLY TALKS about the LET THEM concepts
Sunday at 10am (livestream or in person)
10/5: Introduction
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10/12: Chapters 1-2
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10/19: Chapters 3-6
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10/26: Chapters 7-10
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11/2: Chapters 11-13
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11/9: Chapters 14-17
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11/16: Chapters 18-20
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UNITY KIDS!
On Sunday’s at 10am, the kids will be reading Project Cornerstone books related to the LET THEM chapters that adults are reading! This will give families topics in common to discuss, and ways for kids to be the best versions of themselves!

JOIN A SMALL GROUP to put LET THEM into action
Online Small Groups
Women’s Group on Mondays @ 5:15 – 6:45 on ZOOM with Casey Wicker, Licensed Unity Teacher *Full*
Wednesdays @ 7:00 – 8:30 pm on Zoom with Rev. John Riley (and in the UPA Learning Center)
Thursdays @ 2:00 – 3:30 pm on Zoom with Rev. John Riley (and in the UPA Learning Center)
In-person Small Groups
Tuesdays @ 11am-12:30pm at the home of Patricia Guill-Thielan in San Mateo
Thursdays @ 2:00 – 3:30 pm in the Unity Palo Alto Learning Center with Rev. John Riley (and on Zoom)
Thursdays @ 7:00 – 8:30 pm in the Unity Palo Alto Learning Center with Paul Wcislo & Chris Oliver
Fridays @ 10:00 – 11:30 am at the home of Lynette Ross in Los Altos
Learn More about Small Groups
If these times don’t work for you, fill out this form to tell us what is better for you and we’ll let you know if there is enough interest at that time!

What would life be like if you could…
- Stop taking other people’s behavior personally
- Build stronger relationships by dropping the need to manage everyone else’s feelings
- Find relief from constantly worrying about opinions and approval
- Respond to difficult people with calm confidence instead of reactive frustration
Sign up for the Unity Palo Alto LET THEM newsletter for updates and ideas!
How LET THEM Small Groups Work
How does the Small Group Study Program work?
The Small Group Study Program is a multi-week experience that brings us together to connect and support each other as we try new things, learn, and grow. This is a wonderful way to get to know Unity Palo Alto or deepen your existing friendships.
The groups follow the chapters as discussed in the Sunday Talk. A Study Guide is provided to facilitate discussion and interaction in the small groups.
Where are small groups held? Group gatherings are held online, at Unity Palo Alto, or a hosts’ home.
How long are the small groups? Gatherings last about 1-½ hours to 2 hours.
What happens in a group gathering?
- Centering Meditation
- Check-In
- Discussion of the talk and study guide questions
- Weekly practice to apply LET THEM in our lives
- Wrap-up
- Refreshments and social time
Participants are encouraged to take an active role in the group by sharing the above responsibilities.
